What’s the point?

It’s often amazing to me how much is said and how little is communicated.  Many people seem intent on making sure they are heard — not that their message is heard.

It’s Toastmasters contest season again, and due to another obligation I was unable to attend or participate in my club’s contest.  It was a well-publicized [...]

Three easy steps

The Boy and I got a fantastic tour of the local TV Station103105170 courtesy of neighbor and Sports anchor Jeff Gravley104106171 today. In our conversation, I was particularly interested in the communication skills that were needed for his job, and also how that has changed due to technology in the last 20 years or [...]

Drowning out the applause

A common mistake of those making introductions is to hit the ‘punchline’ too quickly.  When the “heeeeere’s Johnny” (did I just date myself?) gets uttered, the audience goes into applause mode, and the introducer’s job is over.  Or at least it should be.

A common mistake — prevalent at many/most Toastmaster’s meetings — is to try [...]

I’m sorry

I witnessed a great apology today.  At Toastmasters, we are frequently sarcastic and sometimes even caustic with one another (mostly the guys), and today was a light-hearted and enjoyable example of friends getting after one another.  It escalated quickly, with one member good-naturedly ribbing another with a direct comment that was laughed at, but probably [...]

Wrong word

Had a guy last night offer up an English nugget to me. He was a very interesting guy — a true Renaissance man who was also a Toastmaster DTM (highest level possible). As we connected and talked, I used an incorrect word and he paused and said, “I’m going to correct you and [...]

How to get better

Had a comment on last night’s post to just give the tips to getting better.  Unfortunately, there are really precious few.

The best tip, of course, is Rule #1: It’s not about you, the presenter.  It’s about them, the listener/learner/client/audience.  Keeping that in mind is the basis for everything else we discuss.

Practically, the best way to [...]

Second place

I placed second in tonite’s Toastmasters’ Division Evaluation contest.  While I won the Area contest, I joke that I finished second to last (only two competitors).  Everyone in tonite’s competition had won twice already, and everyone was good.  After the contest, I was approached by several folks who seemed unsure of how to approach me [...]

Tunnel Vision

Took in a Toastmasters’ speech contest tonite.  I’m always challenged and entertained by what folks can come up with — the human mind is so creative!  But I suppose it’s what I do that makes it tough to get past what I consider to be critical elements that need to be fixed.  Tonite’s peeve was [...]