by Alan | Jan 10, 2007 | Communication skills, Delivery, Parenting, public speaking
Watched an interaction at a meeting today that was really quite humorous. A person with laptop in tow was being asked direct questions by another person. One question sparked a lightbulb that only Google could answer. So laptop popped open and attention was turned...
by Alan | Dec 3, 2006 | Efficiency, Parenting, public speaking
My 5-year-old son watched his cousin play in a basketball game. She was the largest and most athletic girl on the court, scored 22 of her team’s 26, and led them to an emphatic victory. His comments revealed the impression it made on him, especially in light...
by Alan | Sep 24, 2006 | Communication skills, Delivery, Leadership, Parenting, public speaking
Spent the weekend looking through a viewfinder as the videographer at a friend’s daughter’s wedding. One of the tips I got long ago about videography is to put the camera on the level you want things to be seen at. For kids, especially, this means...
by Alan | Aug 26, 2006 | Communication skills, Content, Delivery, Leadership, Parenting
Went to a niece’s softball game today and also watched a short part of the Little League World Series. A ball field is a funny place with regard to communication. I noticed long ago that just about everything that is said is repeated or stated in pairs. ...
by Alan | Jul 10, 2006 | Communication skills, Parenting, Sales, Toastmasters
How do you grade? Jeff Bailey blogs about Toastmaster evaluations and the slippery slope they create. Since one of Toastmasters major missions is to get folks who are not comfortable speaking in public to cross the divide into the world of perhaps even enjoying it,...
by Alan | Jul 9, 2006 | Communication skills, Parenting, Sales
As adults, we have a way of clouding what we ask for. Comments, implications, hints, and inuendo (of all types) seems to make us feel better than asking outright. Take a lesson from my kids — they ask, and ask, and ask. There is no doubt about what they...
